There are some good guys in my life that I would consider dateable. Dateable by me? Nah. They’re not tall enough. Call it what you want, say what you will, but I don’t care. I prefer tall guys. I’m tall myself…I think. I’m at the weird height where I’m tall and short. Too tall for regular pants but, too short for tall pants. I’m 5’7 (5’8 every other day), and I like guys that are like at least 6 feet.
I get shit for saying I don’t date short guys. But, it’s my preference. Everyone has what they like and don’t like, mine just happens to be height. And it’s not like I’m ruling out short guys because I think they’re assholes or a short guy treated me wrong, so I don’t date them. If that was the case, then yes, I could see why people would be upset. Because I would be generalizing all short guys. But, it’s not like that. I’ve messed with short guys before, so it’s not like I haven’t been with a short guy. I just like em’ tall.
Now-now-now, before you get in my case and say “that’s all you look for in a guy?” let me just say, no, height is not the only thing I look for in a guy. But, as far as physical appearance, that is the first thing I will notice. Besides the physical attraction, I have to be mentally, emotionally, and spiritually attracted to him as well.
Now that we got that out of the way…
There’s only a handful of reasons for why I should ever be looking down to a guy.
- He’s tying his shoe.
- He’s picking something up.
- He’s proposing.
- He’s well uh….I’ll let you use your imagination for that one. 😏😉
I don’t know what it is but, I seem to attract short guys. I talked to a friend who is short (5’5), and he said he loves tall women. He said it’s something about a woman with long legs that is sexy to him. I just really think since short guys have a more limited selection of girls shorter than them, they have no other choice but to date taller. 🤷 I kid, I kid. Lol. 😂😂
“But what if the guy for you is short?” Ehhh…I’m sure there’s a guy out there for me that’s tall. I don’t think I believe in soulmates per se. I do believe that there are people that come in your life that matches your soul. Not as in an exact copy but, like it coordinates, ya know kind of like clothes.
You can put a shirt with multiple outfits, and each one can seem like it was made to perfectly match. It just coordinates well.
Your soul can match with multiple people due to having similar interests, personality, etc. With 7.6 billion people in this world, you’re bound to match souls with more than one person. It’s just all about when you meet them and if you’re willing to look past their flaws to have them as “your person” for the rest of your life. So I’m pretty sure I’ll be okay finding a guy for me that’s tall.
So if you’re tall or know a guy that’s tall and you’re reading this…